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But actually, you probably want to start with a finger. Once your muscles have relaxed, your partner can continue, little by little, until you feel comfortable with the whole thing. Your vagina has lots of bacteria living in it, in a symbiotic yet tenuous balance. Your sphincter needs to be relaxed to allow something to pass through it. Additionally, anal bacteria in your vagina can result in a urinary tract infection , which can be painful and unpleasant. Like, do we need to use a condom if we're monogamous, or can I get infections if I don't?